Get Over It:

My Friend Says I Should Tell My Husband I'm Thinking About Divorce. I Disagree. Who's Right? 
If you and your spouse don’t communicate with each other, it’s impossible for you to really know each other. Sure, you may wait it out and get to a point where you are less annoyed with him, but that hardly counts as relationship success. Success isn’t defined as tolerating each other just enough to stay together; it’s staying together because you want to be together.

My Almost-ex Wants Me to Go With Him to His College Reunion. Should I?
A couple of months ago when I was moving out, he asked me if I would still go with him to his college reunion that is coming up this summer. (We live in Texas and he went to college in New Jersey.) I said yes because it seemed really important to him. At the time, I thought my going would help him to deal with things. In other words, I thought it was the nice thing to do. And even though we aren’t going to be married anymore, we can still be friends, right?

My New Boyfriend Is Still Married. Is That a Deal Breaker?  
I’ve recently met someone and we’ve fallen pretty hard for each other. Ben and I have so much in common, it’s crazy! We’re both in our 40s. We both have two kids in middle school: a girl and a boy. We’re both engineers. And we both love mountain biking. There’s one big difference, though. I’m divorced and he’s…well…not yet divorced.